The Opposite of Revenge

Do you ever find yourself apologising for being you? I was working with a 15 year old girl this morning and we were talking about school and other things that are important to 15 y

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Are you coming out to play?

What is it that gives you permission to be as awesome as you want to be? I mean, you know there is a you that you want to be and then there’s a you that you are but then ther

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Push The Button

I ask a lot of people what they need. It is always asked in the understanding that I can’t provide what they need but still, I ask anyway! So, for example, think about someth

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Hoi, ya big skinny ginger freak!

I’m a f*cking big lanky stupid looking ginger idiot. That’s an interesting statement to start a post off with isn’t it! It’s interesting for me because for

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Fighting, Flighting or Confident…ing?

I was fortunate enough to be back in a high school again today speaking to the new 4th year pupils (14/15yr old) about confidence. I was telling them how I believe that, for many o

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